Upside Down On Your Mortgage and Facing Foreclosure? A Short Sale Could Be Your Way Out ~ My Foreclosure Stopped

If you’re upside down on your mortgage and foreclosure feels like it’s right around the corner, you’re not alone. Thousands of homeowners each year find themselves in this exact situation, unsure of how to move forward. The good news is that a short sale could offer a way out that avoids the long-term credit damage from foreclosure and puts you back on solid ground.

In this article, Upside Down on Your Mortgage and Facing Foreclosure? A Short Sale Could Be Your Way Out, I’ll explain how the process works, what steps to expect, how it affects your credit, and how it compares to other foreclosure prevention options. I’ll also share real case studies, expert quotes, and answers to common homeowner questions.

What Is a Short Sale?

A short sale occurs when a lender agrees to let a homeowner sell their property for less than the outstanding mortgage balance. This typically happens when the home’s market value has dropped, and the homeowner faces financial hardship that prevents them from keeping up with payments.

In a successful short sale:

The home is sold to a third party.
The proceeds go to the lender.
The lender either forgives the remaining debt or pursues a deficiency judgment (varies by state law).

Why Consider a Short Sale?

Avoid Foreclosure: Protect your credit and reduce long-term financial damage.
Stay Proactive: Demonstrate to future creditors that you took responsible action.
Relief from Mortgage Debt: Potential for full or partial debt forgiveness.
Emotional Closure: Provides a more controlled and dignified exit from the property.

Short sales also allow families to avoid the highly stressful and public nature of foreclosure proceedings, which often involve court appearances, public notices, and forced evictions.

“Homeowners who complete a short sale may be eligible to apply for a new mortgage sooner than those who go through foreclosure. Depending on the circumstances and type of loan, you may qualify for a mortgage within two years after a short sale, compared to seven years following foreclosure.” Kelly Legal Group, PLLC Source

Short Sale vs. Foreclosure: Key Differences

Factor	Short Sale	Foreclosure
Homeownership	You sell voluntarily	Home taken via legal process
Credit Impact	Significant but less severe	Most damaging; stays on report 7 years
Deficiency Judgement	Possible but often negotiable	Possible; depends on state law
Ability to Buy	2-4 years (FHA)	5-7 years or longer
Stress Level	Lower; collaborative process	High; court-ordered and public

A short sale helps preserve dignity and a sense of control, which can be invaluable during emotionally charged financial distress.

The Short Sale Process: Expanded 8-Step Timeline

Recognize the Need: Financial hardship such as illness, divorce, or job loss often triggers the need for a short sale. The earlier you act, the better your options.
Contact the Lender: Initiate contact with the lender’s loss mitigation team. Lenders typically require detailed documentation, including hardship letters, pay stubs, tax returns, and a listing agreement. Clear communication sets the tone for cooperation.
Assemble Your Team: Get a real estate agent specializing in short sales, have a real estate attorney on standby to review any contracts, and consult your tax professional; all of these professionals will help guide you through the technical, legal, and financial aspects of a short sale.
List the Property: The property should be priced to attract buyers while reflecting current market conditions. Too high, and buyers won’t bite. Too low, and the lender may reject offers.
Submit an Offer & Package: Once an offer is accepted, the short sale package—including the offer, hardship letter, financials, and estimated net sheet—is submitted to the lender.
Lender Review: This can take 30–90+ days. The lender may counteroffer, order an independent valuation (BPO), or ask for more documentation.
Close the Sale: Upon approval from the lender, standard closing procedures apply. Any remaining balance is addressed per the lender’s agreement.
Post-Sale Considerations: Confirm whether the lender has waived the deficiency. Get all agreements in writing. Consult a tax professional about potential tax implications from forgiven debt.

The Credit Impact of a Short Sale and Your Path to Buying Again

Completing a short sale will negatively impact your credit, but it is far less damaging than a foreclosure, and it offers a much faster path to financial recovery. Here’s what you need to know:

FICO Score Drop: A short sale typically lowers your credit score by 85 to 160 points, depending on your previous credit history and whether payments were missed before the sale.
Foreclosure Impact: Foreclosures often drop credit scores by 200 points or more, and the damage may last much longer.
Credit Report Notation: A short sale usually appears as “Settled for less than full balance” or “Paid settled” — far less alarming to future lenders than “Foreclosure.”
Lender Perception: Many creditors view short sales as a sign that the homeowner took responsible, proactive steps to resolve the situation.

“A short sale will blow a hole in your credit score, dropping it as much as 100–150 points… But in many cases, you’ll be able to obtain a mortgage for a new home in two years, and even less time if you continued paying the mortgage until your house sold.” InCharge Debt Solutions Source

How Soon Can You Buy a Home After a Short Sale?

Loan Type	Minimum Waiting Period
Conventional	2–4 years (can be reduced with extenuating circumstances)
FHA	3 years (may be reduced to 1 year or none if no default)
USDA	3 years
VA	2 years (can be waived if all payments were current)
Non-QM (non-qualified)	No formal waiting period, but higher down payments and interest rates often apply

Examples:

Conventional Loan: You could be eligible in as little as 2 years, but you may need to prove a significant hardship such as job loss or illness.
FHA Loan: Most borrowers wait 3 years, unless they maintained payments on time or qualify for a hardship exception.

VA Loan: Offers the shortest timeline — often just 2 years, and in some cases, no wait at all.

Non-QM Loans: These lenders may approve you immediately after a short sale, though rates and terms are generally less favorable.

What Are Extenuating Circumstances?

Lenders may reduce your waiting period if you can show that your short sale was caused by unavoidable, one-time financial hardship.

Common qualifying events include:

Job loss or significant income reduction
Divorce
Death or critical illness of a household wage earner
Major medical emergencies

If you’re unsure whether your situation qualifies, speak with a real estate attorney, lender, or HUD-approved housing counselor.

“Nonrecurring events that are beyond the borrower’s control that result in a sudden, significant and prolonged reduction in income or a catastrophic increase in financial obligations.” Fannie Mae Source

Three Real-Life Short Sale Case Studies

The Johnson Family – Divorce and Debt

Mark and Lisa Johnson had built their life together in a modest home in Woodbridge, Virginia. When their marriage dissolved, the emotional strain was compounded by the realization that neither of them could afford to keep the house on a single income. Making matters worse, the housing market had declined, leaving them with an upside down mortgage — owing more on the mortgage than the home was worth.

As missed payments began piling up, the couple received their first Notice of Default, which meant the formal foreclosure process had started. They knew they had a limited window—typically 60 to 90 days before the lender could move toward auction.

Rather than let the home slip into foreclosure, they reached out to me (a local Realtor specializing in distressed properties). I walked them through every step: gathering financial documents, writing a detailed hardship letter explaining the divorce and financial strain, and listing the property for a competitive price.

The Johnsons faced months of uncertainty as the lender requested updated financials, performed their own property valuation, and negotiated the sale terms. Finally, with the foreclosure auction just weeks away, the lender approved the short sale. The couple sold the home for less than the mortgage balance, and the bank forgave the remaining debt. Mark and Lisa both secured rental housing shortly after, and within two years, Mark rebuilt his credit enough to qualify for a new mortgage.

Maria S. – Medical Hardship

Maria S., a dedicated elementary school teacher and single mother of two, was blindsided by a sudden cancer diagnosis. The illness forced her to leave her job, and as the medical bills piled up, she fell behind on her mortgage payments. Her modest Baltimore home, once her sanctuary, had lost value, leaving her in deep negative equity.

After receiving the lender’s Notice of Default and facing the threat of foreclosure, Maria knew time was running out. In Maryland, the foreclosure timeline can move quickly, often within 90 to 120 days of default.

Determined to avoid losing her home at auction, Maria enlisted the help of a real estate agent (one of my business partners) who was very experienced in short sales. Together, they crafted a compelling hardship letter and submitted her financial documents to the lender. The first offer on her home fell through when the buyer backed out, but Maria and my partner persisted. They kept the property listed and found a second buyer willing to move forward.

The lender, after re-evaluating the case and ordering a Broker Price Opinion (BPO), approved the new offer. They also agreed to forgive the $75,000 deficiency between the sale price and the mortgage owed. With the foreclosure sale date rapidly approaching, the timing of the short sale approval was critical. Maria was able to move into an affordable rental, avoid foreclosure, and, within just 18 months, she had improved her credit score by more than 100 points.

Kevin & Lisa T. – Military Relocation

Kevin and Lisa T., a young military couple stationed in Arlington, VA, faced the challenge of a Permanent Change of Station (PCS) that required them to move across the country within a few months. They had purchased their townhouse during a peak market period and now found themselves owing significantly more than the home’s current market value.

Knowing that non-payment could trigger a foreclosure process in Virginia in as little as 60 days, they acted fast. Rather than risk foreclosure or default on their mortgage, they contacted me and I explained the short sale process in detail. The couple gathered their PCS orders, wrote a hardship letter explaining their situation, and allowed me to market the home aggressively.

Within a few weeks, they received an offer. Their lender required extensive documentation, including proof of military relocation and detailed financials. The bank ordered a valuation and negotiated some minor closing cost details, but after two months, well before any foreclosure sale could be scheduled, the short sale was approved. The lender waived the deficiency entirely, allowing Kevin and Lisa to move without lingering debt.

Thanks to their proactive approach, the couple maintained their eligibility for VA loan benefits. Less than two years later, they purchased a new home near their new base.

Short Sale Comparison to Other Foreclosure Alternatives

Option	Key Benefit	Credit Impact	Timeline	Home Retention?
Short Sale	Avoids foreclosure, less credit damage	Moderate (2–4 years)	3–12 months	No
Foreclosure	No action required by owner	Severe (5–7 years)	6–18 months	No
Deed-in-Lieu	Fast release from debt obligation	Moderate to Severe	1–3 months	No
Loan Modification	Stay in the home with adjusted terms	Mild to Moderate	1–3 months	Yes
Bankruptcy (Chapter 13)	Court-supervised debt restructuring	Varies by case	Months to years	Yes

Final Thoughts

If you’re upside down on your mortgage and worried about foreclosure, you are not alone—and you are not without options. As we’ve explored throughout this guide, a short sale could be your way out of a difficult financial situation. The title of this article, “Upside Down on Your Mortgage and Facing Foreclosure? A Short Sale Could Be Your Way Out,” reflects the real crossroads many homeowners face and the real solution a short sale can provide.

Choosing a short sale is not giving up. It’s a proactive step that can reduce long-term credit damage, prevent the legal and emotional strain of foreclosure, and open the door to financial recovery. Many homeowners are surprised to learn how quickly they can become eligible to purchase another home after completing a successful short sale.

At MyForeclosureStopped.com, we work with homeowners every day who are navigating the same challenges. Whether you are facing job loss, divorce, illness, or relocation, we’re here to help you understand your options and take back control of your future.